Coming out as eco-friendly

Because I can't go back.

My eco-friendly transition was slow and uneventful. I started by asking questions, doing research and biking more. Along the way, I would tell people that I loved nature and that I was taking steps to better care for myself and the environment.

It has not been easy for everyone, especially my partner who enjoys showering our child with gifts; that's how he grew up. I, on the other hand, grew up expecting to receive nothing. Having a home, food, and an education was more than enough.

We have found a middle ground. Although, what that really means is that we are both unhappy (lol). He thinks that we need more gifts, and I think we have more than enough. I appreciate that he supports all my other eco-friendly ventures, but when it comes to gifts, the tradition of excess is hard to curb....and I get it.

I get it because I am in the process of reimaging wealth and prosperity. As I let go of past ideals, I am also mourning pieces of what I thought my life would look like.

Overall, people have been supportive, but not without somebody telling me that my efforts don't matter or that things won't change. In response, I recite this overstated Ghandi quote, "be the change that you wish to see in the world". I seriously need to think of a better response, but that works for now.

I could throw stats and facts their way, but honestly, I don't think that changes those people's minds. Talking about climate change can turn into a heated topic, pun definitely intended. For the time being,

I put my energy towards doing what I can, where I can, and when I can.

I connect with others who are taking climate action. Rather than follow celebrities or influencers that promote a very tempting lifestyle of excess and overindulgence, I follow artists, local politicians and environmental organizations. I also share actions and changes that bring me joy, make my life easier and save me money. As the adage goes, actions speak louder than words.

So, cheers to progress in the face of resistance. And cheers to maintaining key relationships during the transition. One thing is for sure, to address this existential crisis, we'll need one another.